Nice Guys Finish Last...Period.

Yeah so I know the is like the Gazillionth time that some guy has written about how the Nice Guys that are a rarity in this world finish last. We always are the ones the are nice, polite, considerate and "sweet" as most girls say. But, the part that gets me is that we are everything they want in a guy, but, for some reason...we are like a "brother" or close friend rather than boyfriend material. A lot of times we often do stuff (that we have no idea we did) and yet the girl has no explanation as to why we are breaking up. It's like they can't figure out how to cope with a guy that so good to them and they aren't used to a guy being so caring. I personally had one of my ex's tell me this to my face...and I was like you broke up with me because I treaded you right?! I asked, What do you want? A guys to beat your ass and control you and make you suffer? She had no words, I have moved on since the disaster 2 years ago. I am now thinking about getting in to Psychology I want to understand humans, they confuse me. I once went out with a girl well before I was seriously into sexual activity she wanted it, But, I didn't know...I was use to people telling me they wanted something, then I soon learn about body language. I also found out she broke up with me because she didn't think I was courageous enough to throw her on a table or a wall an sexually destroy her. Had I know she really wanted it I would have lost my virginity a long time ago, However, I am actually happy I saved my virginity for for a special person. It meant a lot more and it was very fun...and I was as they say "Fully Developed" lol. But, the thing is good guys get left by women for a lot of simple reasons and that really sucks, girls try and make it out like the majority of guys are bad...you never will know until you get with them.

How to find a good guy...

Don't go by what they wear or what they do, how they talk or how many phones they got with "Bling" on them. Go by how well they treat you when you don't give them the sex they want when y'all first meet or go by how nice they still are to you when you refuse to let them feel you up in the club. I know guys, I'm one of them I know how we work and I know that will will try to be slick and pull sting or as so put in the hood, "Run Game" to try and get a sexy peice of as in our bed or by our sides, point is not ever guy is the same. Some are out there and really want to get to know you for who you are and some guys by you that ice cream or candy as a sign a friendship, not to get down in your pants. There will always be nice guys, the fact is now with the way society is women just have to search harder to find them.

Women Look for all the wrong things...

"Damn, dat nigga got a car, a J-O-B, and he sexy as hell..." No ladies sorry, I understand the the majority of you like those traits but, in the process of all the muscle walkin' by thats going to beat your ass soon as you hook up, it's not even worth it and in the midst of everything you let the guy that's may be, walkin', without a job, and not the best looking one one the block that would treat you right, walk right by.